Obituary of Benjy Dale Smith

Additionally, Benjy was a devoted grandson, son, brother, and uncle. From the moment he first held his sister, Benjy, eleven years her senior, became her steadfast protector and guide through life’s milestones. Together, they shared countless memories—riding horses, buying her a three wheeler, going to the fair, listening to the soundtrack from Grease, and navigating everything from driving lessons to boyfriend advice. Benjy went above and beyond for his sister, even hauling his horse right into downtown Tulsa parking outside Don Jurick Studios so she could capture her senior portraits with his horse.  Benjy provided his sister with a profound sense of security.  Benjy’s support remained constant as she grew and became a mother herself. He was a devoted uncle to his niece, always present with love and support. He will always be the one walking his niece down the aisle. Benjy was generous and reliable, he left an unforgettable legacy of dedication to family.

Beyond everything he was to his family, Benjy also enjoyed a remarkable career and a magnetic popularity, especially during his days as a DJ. A self-taught and exceptionally talented artist, he pioneered his craft, setting standards that remain influential today. As Oklahoma’s top country and western DJ, Benjy was known across Tulsa, captivating audiences with his bigger-than-life smile, and his signature two-stepping and line dancing.  He taught countless eager fans how to dance and how to be a real cowboy.  

Benjy was a true icon—every girl wanted to catch his attention, and people were drawn to his energy and friendly personality. His charisma and charm filled the room, drawing people in wherever he played, and he became a familiar face and a local legend in the Tulsa music scene. This magnetic personality extended beyond the dance floor; his natural warmth earned him lifelong friendships and respect in every crowd he entertained.

Later, Benjy shifted gears into a career in law enforcement, serving with dedication at the Sheriff's Department and as Head of Security for Tulsa Public Schools. His expertise and leadership eventually led him to build his own successful security company.  He was especially drawn to working with the youth during his time at Hale High School.  He was loved by the students and they respected him.  There, he was able to make the world a better place by imparting his wisdom on younger generations.  

Beyond his career and family life, Benjy was an exceptional athlete, excelling in tennis, basketball, golf, and ping pong. Facing him in racquetball—or any sport, for that matter—almost guaranteed a loss. He had an incredible knack for any game, especially cards, thriving in every competitive situation. Winning just seemed to come naturally to him.

Benjy was the kind of person everyone knew or wanted to know. He didn’t see barriers—he found ways around them. Known for his wisdom and just the right words of comfort, advice, or guidance in any situation, he was a pillar in his community and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

PALLBEARERS:

Ty Dale Vernon Smith     

Lake Lund

Undersheriff George Brown

Retired Reserve Deputy David Jobe    

Thomas Huckeby    

Bill Anglin     

Keith Kuwitzky (in spirit)

Paul Winningham (in spirit)

Chief Daniel Bradley

Jeff Simpson (honorary)